Psychologically, the spark of motivation is glimmered by the energy created by ambition and expectation. Having ambition means wanting more from our lives. It means aiming higher, having more, doing more, or experiencing more. Motivation is sparked when we desire something more for ourselves. Are we looking for a better job? Do you want a better home? Do you want a better marriage? Would you like a better body? Do you want a better life? Do you need relaxation? Do you want to travel around the world? Because whenever we feel such desires, our energies are aroused; the greater the desire, the greater the motivation. This could be the beginning of a spark of motivation.
Therefore, we need to ask ourselves – What do I want for myself? If I were to set a new goal, what would it be? Is there anything I am excited about learning or giving? Where would I like to go on my next great adventure? Is there anything that will make me feel satisfied and motivate me every day? Motivating yourself with such questions is the key to stoking ambition. The reason is simple: When we contemplate higher goals, we energize ourselves to accomplish them. More is to come.
There are many people who want something better for themselves and have ambition-but they are not motivated. What’s the reason? Even though they hope for something more, they don’t believe it can happen, nor do they believe they can achieve it. There is a lack of expectancy on their part – the choice to believe that their dreams are possible and that they can be achieved. Think of the aspiring actor who has never auditioned – she wants to be an actor but isn’t confident that she can achieve it. A potential entrepreneur may want to start a business, but he never leaves his job because he does not believe he can succeed on his own.
People who learn this lesson learn a hard life lesson: Desire without self-belief is ultimately deflating. It is often the case that when we lack motivation, we don’t expect to succeed in our goals. Without belief, we know we cannot achieve it, so we won’t even try. The difference between hope and motivation can be summed up as expectancy. Whenever we feel hopeful but unmotivated, we should add a little faith. We ought to tell ourselves, I expect it to happen no matter what because I believe in my ability to learn and grow every day.
